Meet Annette
Annette, registered nurse (RN) works in a rehabilitation centre for clients with spinal cord injuries. She enjoys her work and feels like she makes a difference in the lives of the people she works with. Steve is a 48-year-old client who is a paraplegic as a result of a car accident. Steve’s wife Leanne has been a great source of support and has rarely left his side since the accident. Annette has become very friendly with Leanne; they have children the same age, enjoy similar activities and have a lot in common.
A few weeks after Steve is discharged home, Leanne sends Annette a Facebook message asking to get together with her and Steve for coffee.
What Should Annette Do?
Reflecting on the 2019 RN Standards of Practice
Annette needs to consider if meeting Leanne and Steve for coffee in a social context could violate professional boundaries. Professional boundaries are defining lines which separate the therapeutic behaviour of RNs from any behaviour which, well-intentioned or not, could reduce the benefit of care to clients.
Staying within appropriate boundaries promotes safe and effective care that meets clients’ needs. It may be acceptable in some instances for an RN to engage in a social relationship with a former client and/or their family. It may be acceptable for an RN to socialize with a client outside of the workplace if for example, the RN provides care to a client for only a few days and then is not expected to provide care for the client again.
Annette will need to ensure she is meeting the 2019 Standards of Practice for Registered Nurses. Specifically, how will Annette meet the following indicator in Standard 3?
- 3.3 initiates, maintains and concludes the therapeutic nurse‐client relationship.
In thinking of the standards of practice, Annette will need to consider the following before establishing a friendship with Leanne and Steve:
- amount of time since the end of the professional relationship with Steve and Leanne
- the amount of emotional stress Steve was experiencing during the therapeutic relationship
- the nature, intensity and duration of care
- the potential impact on Steve and Leanne’s future experiences with the health care system. For example, would they trust other health care providers or believe they would need to travel elsewhere for treatment if the social relationship ended poorly?
- the likelihood of Steve requiring future care from the Annette
- the degree to which Steve has developed an emotional dependency on Annette.
Next Steps
Annette considers these factors. Using the standards of practice as a guide, she confirms that when Steve was hospitalized, the relationship between the three of them was strictly professional. She also notes that a period of time has elapsed since Steve was discharged, which means that a personal relationship had not started when Steve was her client.
Once Annette has confirmed the relationship was professional, she now needs to consider how long Steve was a client, the emotional support Steve required during their therapeutic relationship, and the likelihood of Steve requiring future care from Annette.
The care Annette provided to Steve was focused on his physical, emotional, and psychological needs. For example, it focused not only on his spinal cord injury but also his loss of independence and his loss of income. He was a client of Annette’s for six months and there is a possibility Steve could be re-admitted and may require ongoing nursing care.
Based on a review of these factors, Annette determines it may not be appropriate to see Leanne and Steve in a social relationship because:
- There is a possibility she will have an ongoing professional relationship with Leanne and Steve. If she establishes this personal relationship, she could be at risk of crossing professional boundaries.
- Therapeutic relationships with an emotional and psychological component can create an imbalance in power and can create a potential dependency on the RN.
Annette feels bad but she needs to ensure she is meeting her standards of practice. Annette explains her professional accountability to Leanne and Steve and declines their invitation for coffee. Although it didn’t feel the best declining the invitation, Annette feels confident that she has maintained professional boundaries and will be able to provide the best care possible to Steve, Leanne and other clients in the community in the future.
To know more about professional boundaries, please refer to the Standards for the Nurse-Client Relationship.
For more information on Client-Centered Practice, continue to explore Standard 3 within the 2019 Standards of Practice for Registered Nurses. If you have any questions in meeting this standard of practice, please contact a Nurse Consultant at practiceconsultation@nanb.nb.ca .